Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Tips On How To Give Your Marriage A Zest

Reasons, why some marriages are crumbling and ending in divorce, is because couples are bound with ignorance, they are doing what they ought to do while failing to do what they ought to do and is expected of them. There are many successful men and women in the society, renown in their chosen endeavor and profession but woeful failures at home in their marriage. There are men and women highly successful but have divorce once or twice. As said, you may be a success in all your life endeavors but a failure in your marriage. Moreover, there are couples who are really enduring their marriage instead of enjoying it. In other words, their marriage relationships are so boring that they start regretting why they married that man or the woman. It is obvious when we get bored in our marriage relationships, the next thing is that our love for each other gets sour and then dries up and dies. When we don't get what we expected from our marriages, we start thinking that we married the wrong person. But it is not so, we may have married the right person but what we are putting into our marriage are not enough. We are expecting much from the relationship while we are offering so little. And if your marriage is boring already, you need a spark; you need to put zest to your relationships. First and foremost, you need to evaluate your relationships as to really find out where you have missed it in other to make amend. Reason has been that there may be something you were doing before that kept the relationship going which you may have stopped doing. Or there are things your spouses are expecting from you that you are denying him or her. To this end, the following tips that could help put zest to your marriage life. These tips may be so simple, but try them and see the result. First put a zest to your bedroom affairs: in marriage, one of the issues that bring crack in our relationship more or less starts in our bedroom affairs(sex life). A lady recently complained that her husband no longer showing an interest in having sex with her, she suspects the man is seeing another woman. I told her that if he is seen another woman that she is the cause. Firstly, her husband may have lost affection for her or she may have lost her sex appeal before her husband. I told her that to put a zest to her marriage, she need to rekindle her sex appeal before her husband. I found out that for years, she takes her baths alone and her husband baths alone. That day, after spoken with her, that evening when her husband entered the bathroom to take his bath, she entered as well and stripped herself naked. When the man saw her two apples, something was sparked off in him and he pounced on the wife and started to romance and fondle her Brest as if she saw her nakedness for the first time. They left the bathroom and went straight to the bedroom where they made love. That was how the woman rekindled her sex appeal before her husband, so bathing together could help put a zest to your marriage. The food your husband eats, who prepares it and who serves him? It is unfortunate that some women don't bother whether their husband eats at home or not. It is said that one of the gateways to a man's heart is through his stomach. So to win back the heart of your husband, the food or delicacies he likes, take a time to prepare and serve him yourself. This may be one of the prizes you need to pay. Some families employed a qualified paid cook, so if that is the case, take a time to serve him the food yourself and stay with him while he eats the food. Man, when last did you go for outing or occasion with your wife or family? To put zest to your marriage, you need to create time for your family, go site seeing or outings with your wife and family. Also what prevents you from going on holiday with your family? If your children are grown ups, what prevents you from going to lodge in a hotel for few days alone with your wife? This helps to put zest to your marriage. However, to do all these, you need to be deeply committed to your marriage and the level of your commitment to your marriage more or less determines the success or failure. So stay focused and be committed to your marriage. My name is Vincent, peers call me Vinco. Today people have come to know and call me by the name 'Princevinco', a username I used some time ago in a forum. Princevinco is a Chartered Accountant by profession but ventured into blogging to be sharing articles GOD is inspiring me to write on the net. Primarily i write articles on marriage and relationship and it is my heart desire to be a blessing to you through my articles. You can visit my website http://www.evergreenmarriage.com for more interesting and educative marriage articles. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/9226046

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